maturity
As you get older, everything doesn't seem the same anymore. You start to think more, understand more, and depending on who you are, your curiousity for such things and emotions might either diminish, or get magnified. But in the end, everyone gets mature, just at different ages and at different gradients.
About a year or two back, someone spoke about being happy about the one they love. Oh how innocent it sounded, and how simple it seemed. I remember she saying that if someone you love was happier with someone else, it was best to accept it, and be happy for them. I now know the feelings involved in such an occasion. The jealousy, the rejection, the self-affliction. Heck, its not even a pleasent scenario. But it proves that every single day, she mature and learn something new. This goes for everyone, and those who successfuly commit suicide, are missing out on many things in life they could have experienced.
However, this is how it may seem. We do not know what goes on in their heads, exactly how pressured they feel. It is true everyone has the same pain threshold, but mentally, that is not exactly true. Depending on how sensitive that person is towards the subject, it could either be devastating, or a minor setback, or even nothing at all. Its amazing how the human mind can control your emotions, and that triggers your hormones and sometimes, vice versa.
And if there's something everyone can't do, is to unlock the secrets of the opposite gender. Sure, we can get to know their obvious perferences (all straight sexual boys will love naked women for example), we will never unravel the way they think and feel. Sure, we might get bits and pieces of everything. But since every single person differs one way or another, its not exactly possible to group most characteristics to the opposite gender.
But with understanding, comes the real part of maturity: How you react to it.
That is the final step towards maturity, other than how are you going to take it, like a complete wuss, or like a man. This of course, refers to men. I have no idea how you women would phrase it.
The rest, is up to you to figure out. Where's the fun in telling you everything eh? All I can do, is to just slightly clear the mist, and help you understand life a little better. For those reading, thank you, and may you think over this carefully.
About a year or two back, someone spoke about being happy about the one they love. Oh how innocent it sounded, and how simple it seemed. I remember she saying that if someone you love was happier with someone else, it was best to accept it, and be happy for them. I now know the feelings involved in such an occasion. The jealousy, the rejection, the self-affliction. Heck, its not even a pleasent scenario. But it proves that every single day, she mature and learn something new. This goes for everyone, and those who successfuly commit suicide, are missing out on many things in life they could have experienced.
However, this is how it may seem. We do not know what goes on in their heads, exactly how pressured they feel. It is true everyone has the same pain threshold, but mentally, that is not exactly true. Depending on how sensitive that person is towards the subject, it could either be devastating, or a minor setback, or even nothing at all. Its amazing how the human mind can control your emotions, and that triggers your hormones and sometimes, vice versa.
And if there's something everyone can't do, is to unlock the secrets of the opposite gender. Sure, we can get to know their obvious perferences (all straight sexual boys will love naked women for example), we will never unravel the way they think and feel. Sure, we might get bits and pieces of everything. But since every single person differs one way or another, its not exactly possible to group most characteristics to the opposite gender.
But with understanding, comes the real part of maturity: How you react to it.
That is the final step towards maturity, other than how are you going to take it, like a complete wuss, or like a man. This of course, refers to men. I have no idea how you women would phrase it.
The rest, is up to you to figure out. Where's the fun in telling you everything eh? All I can do, is to just slightly clear the mist, and help you understand life a little better. For those reading, thank you, and may you think over this carefully.
