Life isn't complicating at all, in fact it is quite simple. We start off as a baby and grow till we become adults, live till a ripe old age and then die. Well with exception to a few, they die prematurely. So what makes us feel that life is complicated? Life is difficult?
The answer is us. We make our own life difficult. Something that is so simple, we make it look like its so difficult.
It's the in-between life that is complicated. Our decisions, choices, acts. Being human, we all make mistakes. Being human, we also find it difficult to learn from our mistakes. Hence we repeat them again and again. And the best part, we don't even realise it.
I come to realise that every problems that I or some of my friends have shared to me are actually quite similar. They are similar in a sense that the source of the problem is the same. Most problem seems different based on the situation.
However, not all complications in life is a bad thing. Believe it or not, it is easier to remember the times when life just sucks compared to the days when everything is going smoothly. Just like it is easier for us to notice the bad traits of people rather than the good in them.
The answer is us. We make our own life difficult. Something that is so simple, we make it look like its so difficult.
It's the in-between life that is complicated. Our decisions, choices, acts. Being human, we all make mistakes. Being human, we also find it difficult to learn from our mistakes. Hence we repeat them again and again. And the best part, we don't even realise it.
I come to realise that every problems that I or some of my friends have shared to me are actually quite similar. They are similar in a sense that the source of the problem is the same. Most problem seems different based on the situation.
However, not all complications in life is a bad thing. Believe it or not, it is easier to remember the times when life just sucks compared to the days when everything is going smoothly. Just like it is easier for us to notice the bad traits of people rather than the good in them.